Monday, November 9, 2009

Our Engagement Party

Was a blast!
We had lovely food and drinks and over 50 people came out. It was a great way to have all of our friends and family mingle together at one big event. We had some of the food catered by Market Restaurant on Marriott Road and the rest was courtesy Banks-Graaff Culinary Team. We got some great feed-back on the venue as well which is always a pleasure to hear because it's one of our favorite spots in Durban.

Some of the things that we did that made this party as green as possible were:
1. Instead of using paper or styrofoam plates which can only be used once and occupy a huge amount of land fill space we hired extra plates, glasses, and cutlery that can be used over and over again. The napkins/serviettes were also biodegradable
2. We had the event in the evening so the weather would be more mild and easier to have outside thereby using less electricity for climate control, and used low impact lighting and candles, etc. 
3. All of the serving dishes were ceramic and re-useable and the plastic containers that I did use to transport some of the food was recycled and re-purposed from other food I've purchased. Those take-out containers go a long way!
4. We chose a venue with a central location thereby making it easy for people from every direction to get there and it was also close to where all the food and beverage was coming from thereby reducing the amount of petrol used to put the event on.
5. The food we purchased was from a very whole starting point: fresh fruit, fresh vegetables, uncooked and unprocessed to keep more nutrients in them and all made with fresh organic herbs, of course the cooked food was cooked correctly, but we did not use any processed food, even the pesto was completely fresh and from a local vendor. The pumpkin bake I made was also a hit which doesn't even use a container, you bake a pumpkin, throw stuff into it and bake it some more! (This was a party favorite I must say.) 
6. The decorations were simple, carved hearts and raffia which will be our christmas ornaments and gift wrapping materials. Getting multi-purpose and re-useable decorations is key in having a green event.
7. The centerpieces I purchased from the on-site nursery (Touchwood Nursery) so no delivery needed and had him plant them in re-used pewter mugs that I got from local antique shops (after Simon drilled a hole in the bottom for water routing). Instead of having cut flowers I had useful plants potted in a decorative way. The pewter adds to the mineral content of your plants and helps keep the indoor plants even more healthy. I had herbs such as coriander, sweet basil and parsley planted in them and they look stunning. Not to mention the succulents which use minimal water to sustain were planted in recycled containers
8. Most importantly, the entire event was VEGETARIAN. We had minimal left overs and people raved about the food. Eating less meat is the easiest way to reduce your carbon footprint and probably one of the healthiest changes you can do for yourself. Simply having a vegetarian meal at least once a week will do wonders for your heart health, cholesterol levels, immune system, and more.  
9. Fundamentally, we had the event locally in Durban instead of Cape Town to help reduce the amount of travel needed for those that live in Durban. Not to mention, this helps out economically as well because it enables our Durban friends to participate in the wedding without having to come all the way to Cape Town and helps local businesses' sustainability.
10. We did not send out any paper invitations, instead we invited people via email, Facebook, and even a phone call which meant no paper or petrol used to produce the paper or get the invitation via mail to your door. This is also how the wedding invitations will be done as well. 

 Thank you to all that brought some lovely gifts and food and wine! We are so lucky to have such great friends and family to celebrate this exciting time in our life!

More to come on the wedding itself, much progress has been made and things are getting finalized, yay!

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Engagement Party


We decided that since the wedding will be held in Cape Town that we should have an Engagement Party in Durban for our people here. It's going to be held at St. Clement's Garden Cafe located next to St. Thomas' Anglican Church on Musgrave Road. On Saturday, November 7th, 2009 from 6-9pm

This is a locally owned and operated joint that employs a lot of good wait staff and has a great atmosphere. It's in a cute old Cape Dutch home converted into a cafe surrounded by a Nursery that operates during daytime business hours. It's got an inside and outside reception area so weather permitting it will be an outdoor affair in their lovely garden! We have the whole place rented out, there will be food, there will be wine, feel free to bring either of those as well but let me know in advance so I don't have enough food to feed an army. Also RSVP ASAP so that I can make sure I have enough wine for our army!

Once again: 

Saturday, November 7th, 2009
6-9pm
@ St. Clement's Garden Cafe

Hope to see you all then!!



April 24th!

It's official, we have set a date, in stone!

April 24th, 2010

The wedding itself will be held in Cape Town, South Africa. Given that we are trying to do something interesting and different, we won't know the exact location for a little while longer but for those making travel arrangements it will be that weekend in CPT, so make your arrangements now!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Welcome!

Hello there and thanks for taking the time to visit our blog!

As you may have guessed, this blog will be the communication and ideas forum as well as the 'one-stop shop' for all wedding information needs. We will be posting regularly on here with all sorts of interesting stuff like venue information, food ideas, travel thoughts (for those visiting), ideas for decor, etc. and encourage you to do the same! 

This weekend we are going to Cape Town to do a site and logistical visit to the place we are really, really hoping to get married at. So hold your fingers, toes, and opposable thumbs that this place will work and we will keep you posted!

Thank you again for your interest and support, we look forward to blogging with you!

Simon and Shawn